The Great “We’re Too Old For That Kind of Stuff” HOAX

P.S. the fastest growing group of sexless relationships are actually in the young couple. We talk about SEX like we all know what the other one is talking about.  I have learned for my years as a Sex Therapist that I have NO IDEA what you mean when you say WE DON’T HAVE ENOUGH SEX” […]

Just Let Go …… Or Deciding To BE Married Again?

    Deciding to be Married “AGAIN” or………….Just Go? I don’t know how many times you have tried to be nicer to your spouse, complain less, do more, have big talks, go on special weekends or even have the marriage summit. Some of us have done it all……….and we are in this place again. What […]

Google help me I am stuck in a sexless marriage, now what?

We all know sexless marriages exist and lots of folks will tell you why but read here to begin learning the questions you must ask yourself before you talk to your partner even one more time about your sexless marriage.

Check Yourself Before Your Wreck Yourself. 9 Bad Relationship Habits you might be guilty of and you don’t even know it.

Just because you are the one who can communicate doesn't always mean you are doing your best in a relationship.  Take a cold hard look at these relationship "bad habits".  Even if your partner doesn't call you out on things because they are a non-talker, it doesn't mean you are not harming your relationship.  Be Brave.  Just because you are...

Valentine’s Day’s Dirty Little Secret… HAS YOUR CHEERS TO A NEW YEAR’s Resolution TURNED INTO….

Same old same old, blah blah blah, here we go again. The problem with Valentine’s Day is it comes at just the wrong time. What I mean is if it could come about two weeks after our New Year’s Resolution we might’ve been excited and celebrating how we had started to change. Maybe we’d even […]

Want a Fall In Love Quickie :-O

I can’t tell you how many times in 20 years of relationship therapy,  I have heard one person in the couple tell the other that they think they have  FALLEN OUT OF LOVE.     ” I love you”, but “I am not in love with you”.   It saddens me as the other partner looks at their […]

Marriage Myth #6 We have a quality marriage we don’t ever fight. How Can You Be So Sure.

We never fight so we have a quality relationship, right? Many couples think that what’s wrong with other  relationships is what they’re fighting about. In-laws, money, sex, kids, housework, finances, fun together, work schedules, etc. etc. etc. and the list goes on. But that’s NOT what’s really underneath most couple fights. One person in the […]

How To Trust Again Even While …..Being Brokenhearted

Welcome. If you’re here that means you’re concerned about infidelity cheating and affairs. Perhaps you’ve been cheated on by a loved one. If that’s the case I want to say to you that I am so so sorry that you were having to deal with the betrayal of a loved one. But I want to […]

What Right Do You Have To Ask For Forgiveness?

Are you ready to take the conversation deeper. I assume that you have worked on some of your apology work but if you’re concerned about forgiveness and you want so desperately to have your partner say that they forgive you. Then I want you to ask yourself some questions. There are certain things you need […]

 This is why your sorry doesn’t work.

4 Steps That Will Make You Show Your Caring. The art of the apology is a beautiful thing. But simply saying I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to hurt you, is not one of the actions. There are at least 4 key actions to an actual apology.  Do this and you might begin to repair you […]

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